too little.. too much..

Hello people ! so sorry i haven't been updating as often o_O Feels like i've dropped off the face of the Earth ! I've been busy & moody - also, because of the lousy weather, i haven't been feeling on top of the world! Also, my joy was shortlived, my internet connection at home went kaput again late friday nite.. now pending streamyx technician to come fix the faulty ADSL line. Because of this farking problem, i'm not able to download latest pics of me to complement this post

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Though i've camwhored less nowadays BUT there're stil quite a mega dung load of accumulative expired photos constipatedly stuck in my camera...geez.. Downloaded my camera's software into my office PC ;) but shit !!! forgot to bring the camera USB cable .. so i busted my own second attempt to put up my pics Will do my best to post up those mega bombastically pretty pics of me soon ;)

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For now i'll dwell on the 'sexy' subject which i wanted to rant about for quite some time already.. Look at the pics below - can u roughly guess what i want to talk about??

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geez ... those guys need a bowl under their chin

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veteran drooler ..

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drooler in the making ..

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No, i'm NOT against guys (and girls) eyeing, drooling over skimpily clad ladies. Obviously, its only natural to be looked at if the lady is dresses sexily ;) heck..i myself would give a second look to a hotbod sexily clad woman ;) .. envying those perky boobs and arse i'll never have! =.=

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What i can't stand is why some people like to perceive a sexily clad lady as a slut/easy to talk dirty with/easy to sleep with?? Its so unfair to judge solely by the way she dresses. What's important is the way she carries herself - the way and what she speaks of. Okies..i admit i like to dress sexy occasionally, my sexy standard is a hint of cleavage and 2/3 portion of my legs showing, NOT boob-nipple-spilling out/ass-sticking-out sexy.

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Scenario 1 - I've a few encounters where some ladies (of my neighbourhood) give me rude dissapproving stares, i could only imagine what kinda bitchy remarks they have in their narrow minds - then it happened.. my neighbourhood friend Ah Ping reported back to me.

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Ah Ping : eh..serena, you know arr...there are some ladies here asked me whether i know you

Me : ehh...izzit? i kinda expected that, judging by the way they stare at me. Then, what did you say?

Ah Ping : I told them i don't really know you.. cuz you know larr.. some ladies in our neighbourhood are very very nosy wan.. You know what they said about you?

Me : Don't know lehh... what did they say??

Ah Ping : they refer you as the girl who like to dress like 'that' .. like to wear fit fit, tight tight

Me : did the nosy bitches define what they mean by: i like to dress like 'that'?

Ah Ping : No lehh.. i quickly changed the topic so that they say & ask no more about you.

Me : hhmmpphh... okay.

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Scenario 2 - There are some men whom i cordially know (met through friends/businesss engagements) hurled sleazy lines at me out of thin air (desperation to find a hump-buddy?) and this is one of the examples of the cheesy line i've been slapped with !

Dario* : "serena..you must be really wild behind closed doors"

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I'm shell-shocked Dario* texted this message to me, where i just met him the day before together with my friend Vaughn* for dinner! WTF !!?? (Dario & Vaughn are childhood friends, and Vaughn had invited me to join him to have dinner with Dario)

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Me : " Dario do you often talk such to ladies you just meet??"

Dario : It depends ..... i'm comfortable with you

Me : FYI Dario, i'm not used to having such conversation with a man i just meet >.<

Dario : oh.. okay .. i withdraw my words and will fine-tune my language in future.

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Why these people have to be so rude/presumptuous ?? Why do they like to assume sexily clad women deserve to be mocked at or can be dirty-talk with ?? In Scenario 2, i find Dario's words to me : "serena..you must be really wild behind closed doors" really disturbing, rude and offensive. Dario didn't think it would offend me when he texted me those words, bcuz he said he felt comfortable with me. Hello ! it is a very subjective response. One man's meat is another man's poison. Don't assume what the other person can accept or reject. It takes time to get to know a person !! It doesn't cost a single dime to be courteous and respectful.

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sigh.. o_O once again i'm gonna say :-

I accept : sincere comments/ constructive crtiticism

I reject : sleazy lines/insultful,degrading tauntings

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Dario* , Vaughn* : names have been changed